Letting go and moving on are words often used after a break up or after a sudden painful event happened in our lives. Simple words but as they say... Hard to do.
But now I want to share to you some of my personal insights regarding letting go and moving on which are very effective to me.
Let alone are my blog posts 😁... Most of it are just emotions created by my imaginations.
They may sound too broken, but they are mostly extracted from the thoughts that never happened that I just tried to feel what it is like to be. So yes, they sound so broken but it is not I who is in pain.
So here are some ways, which hopefully could help people who are struggling to move on as well.
Though I know that we are all different people with different personalities, different levels of tolerance and state of minds. But perhaps, this will help.
Here it is...
First, you gotta trust your instincts. Before the final goodbyes, before the dead end, red flags will start to appear on every corners of the relationship. It will be very obvious and very impossible not to notice. Your instincts will tell you that sooner it will end. So better trust that instinct of yours.
So while everything is still in the process of falling apart, you have to start there. Start moving on. Start accepting that this will end sooner or later and be ok with that. Start accepting that you cannot do anything to save it and that you've done your best but it is never meant to stay.
The sooner you start accepting the end, the sooner you'll be ok. So when the time comes when you have to finally say your last goodbyes, you already moved on. Yes, there is still pain, but the pain is mostly just about the fact that this is it. The end. But the attachment has long been gone... The connection has long been broken.
After the break up, you have to feel the pain, let it wash you so you could finally feel the meaning of freedom, and how happy it is to be free again.
I am not saying that this is applicable to all, but it is worth to try. After all we all deserve to be happy again. 🥰